A family of performers.

Finley's Christmas program was last week. She did great! She sang most of the songs and shook her jingle bells. She looked so cute! This year they wore angel costumes. She was so excited when she saw Sam and I had crawled to the front to wave to her.

On Sunday, Joey was in the Boar's Head service at church. He was a wonderful shepard and even grew his hair and beard out to prepare for his role.

Oh, Sam...

Before Sam arrived, I heard horror stories about how boys are always hurting themselves and I started to get worried. So far he has successfully crawled down the small flight of brick stairs in our house. He was barely crawling at the time and he made it down unscathed in about 5 seconds. We put up a gate, but if that gate is left open it's like his radar goes off and you've never seen a baby crawl so fast towards anything in your life. I vacuumed up a broken ornament and then set the dust buster on the floor and a few little pieces of BROKEN GLASS came out of the hose and were on the floor. I had to fish the pieces out of his mouth.! He slammed his finger in our entertainment center last night and had a huge dent in his finger. I was headed out the door to the ER when I realized it was already popping back out. He somehow got the cleaning cabinet open (it has a child proofing device on it and I have trouble getting it open sometimes) and was sucking on the spray nozzle of a Lysol bottle. You get the idea. If he's not trying to harm himself, his sister is jumping off the furniture over him, choking him, laying on top of him, squeezing his head, or throwing things at him and laughing hysterically. He's only 8 months old! I try not to think about how this will compound when he's older. I know he will most likely have a love for sports like his Daddy and I always imagined cheering him on in whatever sport he decides to participate in, but I wouldn't mind a son who is interested in music or art. If he insists on playing a sport, I suppose golf would be okay :)

Frosty the Elf

Our elf arrived this morning! Finley has named him Frosty.Today I have been moving him around while Finley isn't paying attention. She likes to look for him and gets excited when she finds him. She  said she hopes she can see him fly. I told her he was shy and didn't like to fly in front of people. I'm not really counting on this to improve her behavior because if she doesn't care what me and Joey, Jesus and Santa Claus think I don't think she's going to care about the opinion of a stuffed elf, but we'll see ;) For now, I just want it to be the start of a fun Christmas tradition.

I'll report his antics as they happen, but don't expect anything over the top. I already have a husband and two children to clean up after ;)

Her SHE is (Finley calls it she) sleeping in the chandelier. She flew into Finley's room to sleep on her light fixture, but I overheard Finley say, "Frosty, don't sleep in here okay?" I guess those shifty eyes creeped her out.

They will not be forgotten.

Since Friday I have tried to push the tragedy in Connecticut to the very back of my mind, but it just keeps cropping up and every time it does I have to fight back tears. I think about how scared those babies and teachers must have been. I think about how shattered, heartbroken and hopeless those parents must feel. I think about them going home after identifying bodies and seeing Christmas presents under the tree, pajamas on the floor and artwork on the refrigerator and I wonder how will they ever take a breath again. How will they ever recover? How will anyone at that school and in that community ever recover from this? I prayed that they didn't suffer. I prayed that the families would find peace. I prayed that Finley and Sam will have teachers who would die for them, I prayed that the powers that be would implement new safety measures. It feels like the world should stop but it just keeps on going. Then, I start to think about how it could have been here. It could have been at Finley's school. That's when I have to tell myself to stop. When the movie theater shooting happened, I found myself thinking everywhere I went, "What will I do if I turn this corner and there is a man with a gun". Since the shooting in Connecticut I have found myself thinking it again. I don't want to see the innocent, angelic smiling faces of the children who were gunned down by that madman. It makes me too sad. I feel guilty for feeling this way because I know they should not ever be forgotten. It's just one of those things you cannot bear the thought of and having a face to go with a name makes it too real, I guess. I could go on and on about what I think should be done but I just want those affected to know that the world is mourning the loss of those children and they are loved and missed by people who don't even know them. They will not be forgotten. 

If only I was 5 inches taller...

My sweet husband surprised me with tickets to see the Rockettes at the Grand Ole Opry! I saw them in NYC when I was in high school and loved it and mentioned it would be fun to see them in Nashville. Ask and you shall receive ;) We drove up to Nashville Saturday and did some shopping, had dinner at Demo's and headed over to the most crowded place on Earth. Seriously. If you ever decide to go to show there, just know you need to arrive a couple hours early and shop or eat and then walk to the theater. We could see the place at 7:00 and we were still 15 minutes late for the 8:00 show. Aside from that it was awesome!!! The toy soldiers segment was my favorite. Finley would have loved it! Joey and I decided we will definitely take her next year. Joey even liked it, surprise, surprise. The next morning we got up and had breakfast at Loveless Cafe. My mouth is watering as I type this. It's good old fashioned Southern home cooking. They are famous for their biscuits and for good reason. It was a great weekend!

A Skate in the Park

This year Huntsville got an outdoor skating rink at Big Spring Park! The Tinsel Trail runs right beside it. The Tinsel Trail is an event where businesses buy Christmas trees and decorate them and then you can walk along a trail and view them. Katie and Abby joined us last night for a girls night to skate and walk the trail. We had a great time! Finley was a little grumpy because we had a busy day and she didn't take a nap, but she held it together as long as she could :) She did great skating. She was frustrated that she couldn't do it herself, but once she decided to let me help by pushing her along with one of those walkers she had fun. Faster, Mommy, faster!!! By the time we went around a few times my glutes were a burnin'. She really wants to go back so we may have to do it again with Daddy.

You've been RAK'd!

Random Acts of Kindness, I LOVE it!

A random act of kindness every day seemed overwhelming to me. I want to WANT to do these, not be thinking all day every day that I have failed if I don't get it done. I decided we would do 3 a week. I went through a few lists and picked out the following random acts of kindness. Here's my list and the reason I picked these particular acts. Some are purely to give, some are for fun and some are to inspire others to perform random acts of kindness.

 1.) Take treats to the fire station: Firemen don't get paid enough for the danger they put themselves in every day. Krispy Kreme doughnuts should make it better, right? We did this today. A lady called them upstairs and said a little girl wanted to give them some doughnuts. It may have been the fastest anyone has ever come down a flight of stairs :)


2.)  Take treats to the police station: Policemen don't get paid enough either. I had planned to take them doughnuts until I realized the irony...maybe cookies instead.

3.) Make treats for the mailman: In my neighborhood, the mailboxes are on the houses. Our mailman walks his route in the sweltering heat of summer and in the freezing cold of winter. He deserves a little something, don't you think? Maybe a gift card and some cookies.

3.) Make treats for anyone else who may come by the house: The meter man, city workers, garbage collectors, UPS, Fed Ex, etc. I was thinking a little bag of cookies with a note.

4.) Pay for the person behind you in the drive thru: I love this one! How fun to watch the disbelief that someone they don't know did something nice for them. I would be so excited if this happened to me...it's the little things :)

5.) Give the guy at Publix who takes your cart to your car a gift card: I'm so excited for this one too. This one older man always takes my cart to the car and I always feel sad that a.) He doesn't accept tips and b.) I never have cash to tip him anyway.

6.) Put 3 new toys in the Public toy donation box: I noticed they had a box yesterday and I have lots of toy coupons that I can't use on my kids. They have too much already!!!

7.) Donate food items to a local food bank: Donating food goes hand in hand with BOGO at Publix. One for me, one for you. Hopefully, it will help a few more people have a hot meal over the holidays.

8.) Give away a good item on Facebook: There is a great FB page where I sell the kids things when we are done with them. I'm just going to pick one of the things I have and give it away for free.

9.) Donate to an international charity: I kind of cheated on this one because we have already done this, but I figured if I can't get my all 3 things done one week I'll use this one in its place.

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